Facing Failure Before Success
We all aim to be successful in every aspect of our lives, relationships and career, but unfortunately, you can’t win at everything. In life, you’re going to have to experience failures before you find success. Without this valuable experience, you will never understand the importance of hard work and persistence.
When experiencing failure, a lot of people see it as a defeat, which is the problem. In order to be successful, you need to learn to make the most of your mistakes and see them as a learning opportunity. If you were to search some of the most influential successors, you will find a story of endless failures before they reached their goals.
Before creating the Disney empire, Walt Disney was fired from a newspaper for his lack of creativity. Famous director Steven Spielberg was rejected three times from film schools before he landed his big break. Henry Ford was the founder of two failed automotive companies before the success of Ford Motors. But the thing is, they never let their failures get in the way of them trying again and again and again.
There are plenty of lessons to be learnt from your failures, so lets take a look at some of them, to help direct you on your path to success.
Failure Will Shape Your Values
The feeling of success can be cut short when you value the wrong things, making it more tempting for you to give up. When reconsidering your values, start expecting less in return and focus on giving to others to improve their lives, then you will begin to see a shift in where your happiness and success is coming from.
It Will Change Your Financial Perspective
All drastic failures will shift your view on money and make you see it from a different perspective. No matter what area you have failed in, such as your relationships or career, you will have a new way of thinking financially. Failure is known to often be near when we begin to disregard our money in unnecessary luxuries, such as alcohol and parties and possible other addictions.
You Will Realise What Your Priorities Should Be
As they say, stars can’t shine without darkness. Failure is the thing that will break you before it makes you and there is no way around it. And when you failure you begin to reconsider what is important in your life. You begin to rearrange your priorities and start to realise what matters the most to you.
Nonetheless, remember that failure is not where the road ends. There will always be another direction you can travel to reach your desired destination. You may have to go through a lot of redirections and bumps along the way, but if you keep going you will get there. Every failure along the way will be another lesson learnt to help you go on stronger and more determined than before.